Friday’s Free for All
I missed Thursday’s blog – first time I’ve missed since revamping the Career Essentials blog and implementing the content calendar schedule. Sorry to those who regularly read the blog. I suppose that will happen from time to time….that’s life.
Since it was a post for Thursday’s Review, I had planned on reviewing Toastmasters.org and comment on my own thoughts of the organization. My plan was to
research their site or talk with other members and groups. Instead, I think I’ll just give you my quick personal overview.
For those unfamiliar with Toastmasters, it is an organization member’s join to improve their confidence and ability in their public speaking. I joined Toastmasters International in October of 2008 after being asked repeatedly to assist in outplacement work, and conduct workshops and seminars. I had turned down several really great opportunities because I was not comfortable (actually more like scared to death) in front of an audience and not really confident I could hold the attention of job seekers if I was a presenter.
My experience when I joined, and I have heard similar stories from many others, was wonderful. The first meeting was easy, friendly and fun. I actually started learning about presenting at that first meeting. When first joining you receive a booklet that describes 10 themes for 10 speeches, you can work through the book at your own pace and you are given positively presented, honest feedback that really helps. After you complete the initial book there are many others to choose from that are specific to what you’ll be working on such as seminars, motivational, comedy, and more.
I have completed 3 speeches and have had to take a break because of conflicting schedules but plan to return in the next month or so. The meetings are weekly and last about an hour. If you go to the Toastmasters website you can find a listing for local meetings in your area. They are everywhere and extend globally; I had no idea until I started looking myself.
I can happily say that I have improved 100% already in my speaking abilities. I’ve learned that it is OK to be nervous or even feel scared – but that most of the nerves I feel inside are never seen by others. I have also realized I can help others by offering my knowledge and expertise through presentations and seminars, and I won’t collapse with fear in doing so. I can help others by not focusing on me but focusing on how I can help those listening to me speak.
There are many more things that take place at the meetings, they are really an effective way to improve your public speaking and presentation abilities. The local clubs have speaking competitions, and even have elected officers. If you are unsure, look online for one near you and check it out, visitors are always welcome!
